Problems & Solutions

Za, I know how immensely difficult it has been for you. Divorce wrecks...but unhappy marriages does the exact same....or worse. But you have stood up thru the confusion amazingly good. Whilst daddy is slipping, sliding falling...losing control and not being able to pass on good words, good thoughts. Where is that quote from the Prophet (p) that the BEST thing a father can give to his child is good character? See Za, sometimes our book-learning is like straw and cannot stand up to the storms of life. But thru the darkness I still want to pass on some quality ideas for you will also face trials in life (God made it so). See Za, many of us allow ourselves to be overwhelmed by the small (or big) worries and vexations of everyday life, clothing them with a reality quite disproportionate to their importance. We are too apt to look at them, as it were, through a powerful microscope, piling power upon power of magnification, until we have made mountains out of mole-hills. However if we had treated them at their true value then we should have looked at them through a telescope, in the reverse direction, when they would appear not only trivial, but would be seen to be too remote to have any material effect on our lives. So Za, time heals. Papa will be back to his humorous self as God clearly states that He CARES for all during times of crisis. So baby lets place our trust where it truly belongs...GOD. May He guide you to utilize the time given you in this world in a beautiful way. For sure you have brought immense joy to my soul. Thank you.